By Unknown. I had been surfing the internet for weeks, looking for a dominant male or couple that wanted to play with a bi-curious male. I would describe myself as average-looking, in his mid-thirties, and about average height. I’m a bit overweight, but not hugely fat. I’m very submissive. I work in an office and don’t make a huge amount of money. There seems to be a cliché that all submissive men are influential executives that turn to femdom to