We talk all the time about how every woman is a unique sexual snowflake, and no type of vagina is better or worse than another. Well, the same thing holds true for dudes. Unfortunately, guys with small peens don’t always have the easiest time dating or getting busy with someone new. The stereotype goes that a smaller than average package makes for a lame time in the sack. But to prove that that’s not always the case, we asked several women who’ve dated (or married) guys with an XS situation in their pants for their feedback.

 

He’s Always Open To New Things…

“My husband’s junk is by far the smallest I’ve ever handled before. But it’s not a big deal at all. He kind of delayed having sex with me for a few months, and I thought that was weird. The first time I saw his penis, I didn’t notice how small it was. It was dark in his room and the whole thing happened so fast. The best part about having sex with someone with a small penis is that he is always down to try new positions to see what feels good for me. The worst thing is that it takes a lot for me to have an orgasm compared to when I was with guys with larger penises.” —Lisa D., 31

 

He Doesn’t Care…

“My boyfriend’s penis is mini, but his confidence is out of this world. He’s super cocky and you’d never guess he was lacking in that department. The first time we hooked up, I took off his pants, saw what he was working with, and laughed. I wondered if it would be bigger the harder he got but it wasn’t. I didn’t mean to be rude, but I laughed because I was nervous looking at it. He honestly doesn’t care about the size of it and always tells me that size doesn’t matter. Though I think that size matters somewhat, the benefit is that he’s a very confident guy that treats me well in every way.” —Teresa D., 28

 

He Made Up For It…

“I’m dating a guy who doesn’t have a big package, but he knows how to please a women. The first time we had sex was the greatest sex of my life. Yes, I noticed he had a small penis, but he made up for it in so many ways. He knew how and where to touch me. There was a lot of teasing! It was fun sex, and I didn’t even care that his penis was the size it was because he used his hands and tongue.” —Gloria W., 36

 

He Communicates…

“Right before we got hot and heavy, my now-boyfriend told me that I might be disappointed by the size of his man parts. I guess he had situations in the past where girls ditched him after the hook up. But honestly, it made it worse that he told me that before I saw it. I was scared and he was embarrassed. When I saw it, I thought it was small, but I could have done without the heads up. The sex is okay. We’ve worked on getting better at it with a lot of foreplay and different positions. The best part about our sex life is that we communicate openly about what we like and don’t like, and I’ve never had that with anyone else.” —Hannah V., 26

 

He Made A Joke Of It…

“I literally found out my boyfriend had a tiny penis on our fourth date. We were at his apartment, drinking wine and hanging out, and we started to play the game two truths and one lie. His story was: ‘I was born on Christmas Eve; my left eye is fake; I have a really small penis.’ I was laughing so hard and obviously thought that the penis one was the lie—because who says that? It turns out it was the truth and the eye was the lie. He made a joke out of the whole thing, and honestly, I feel like he’s used this method before. Right after that, I asked to see it, because obviously we were going to hook up that night. It was definitely really small, but I guess I imagined it to be smaller. It’s been a challenge figuring out how to have better sex with a small penis, but I really like how my boyfriend made a joke out of the whole thing and still keeps the joke going today.” —Rochelle D., 28

 

He was the better guy…

“I remember my current boyfriend telling me before the first time we had sex with such a forlorn expression that his penis is small. I could see how badly he felt about and he gave me an out right there to go find a ‘better guy’. The only problem was the better guy I wanted was him, and I didn’t give a crap about his dick size. The more we discussed it, the more I could see what a real issue this was for him. So we had sex, and it was good. He has a 4.5″ erect penis, and it made me orgasm fine. This fear he has about his dick is still with him, even though we have a good sex life. He asked me once if my previous sexual encounters were with bigger dicks, and I said yes. This sent him into a depression sadly. He just can’t seem to accept that I love him for who he is, not his dick. He told me one day he thinks all women secretly crave big dicks, and I told him it’s not true. Regardless of what the media might say, we don’t grade men based on penis size. I’ve had sex with bigger dicks than him, but the sex wan’t better. I didn’t orgasm harder or anything. I’m trying to help my boyfriend through this, but seeing how he is really opened my eyes to some things men go through that we don’t really discuss enough in society.” -Kara W., 24

 

He Changed Her Mind…

“I always thought I preferred bigger dicks, to be honest, until I met my husband. When I first seen his 4″ dick I was like WTF? I felt so torn because I really liked him and I worried sex with him would be bad because that’s what you always hear. But sex with him wasn’t bad at all, and over time I learned how to have sex with him (trust me it’s different to bigger guys) and our sex life is good. I married him, and we have two kids now. I’m very happy with my small dick husband, and women who perpetuate this myth about small dicks really don’t have a clue.” -Jenny K., 32

 

He Taught Her How To Have Sex Properly…

“My husband has a micropenis, it’s only about 2.5″ erect, and looks like a stubby thumb. When we first had sex I have to admit I didn’t feel anything and I still don’t really, and I thought things might not work because sexual intimacy is important to me. In hindsight, the problem was me because I just treated him the same as every other guy I’d had sex with to that point. We had sex some more and he could tell I wasn’t enjoying it, and suddenly he said to me he was tired of doing sex my way, can he do it his way. I had nothing to lose, so I said go for it. Then I met the real man who took me on such a sensual adventure with massage, oral, and toys that orgasming with him was no longer a problem. He just seemed to know how to press all the right buttons. My orgasms were better than the guys with big dicks I’d been with because he made me understand that vaginal intercourse is not where I get the most pleasure. I have never known such a wonderful lover. We have three kids now, and he is my soul mate.” -Amelia P., 37

 

The End.

 

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