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by small_dik.

I am not sure if our readers will remember the infamous Sex in the City episode where resident slut Samantha (played by Kim Cattral) has a new lover who has a small dick. After trying various means to make sex with the guy more satisfying eventually they end up in couples counselling where she confesses the problem is his small dick. The counsellor (a female) makes it clear then that the problem can’t be solved and the poor guy runs out of the room in anger (and probably went and had a good cry).

When I first watched this episode as a young man in my early twenties struggling with my own small dick issues, I was filled with absolute horror. Is this to be my lot in life with sexual partners dumping me left, right and centre due only to my tiny member? Even though it was clear that Samantha really liked the guy in the story (she even went to counselling which she hates, for him) she eventually dumps because of his small cock.

I found this TV episode so distressing that I promptly stopped watching Sex in the City because I couldn’t face that again. The guy in that story was so humiliated by what Samantha did to him, and by extension I was humiliated by it too. It seemed to represent all my worst nightmares at the time about my own life.

But I have grown older since those days and hopefully wiser too, although I am sure some might doubt that.

I have different feelings about this TV episode now. It doesn’t upset me like it did all that time ago because I can see that the small dick guy in the episode was a totally unrealistic representation of a man like that. The man in this story afflicted with the small cock seems to lack any self awareness about his penis size which in my experience is complete bullshit.

Why I say this is that every man knows what size his dick is. Yes we have all measured it or at least compared it to someone else’s. We all know if our cock is small, average, or large so let’s be honest about that.

So the first flaw of the episode is the portrayal of the small dick guy who is 3 inches hard and we are supposed to believe he thinks this is perfectly normal. That he doesn’t think he has any problems at all. If he was a real small cock man then he would have known before the first date what he was up against.

I know from experience this is something that burns in your mind before a date with a person whom there is a good chance you may be intimate with. Every small dick guy is positively consumed by what will happen when the object of your desire finally sees with his or her own eyes the size of your manhood.

The second flaw I can see in the episode is that once Samantha started to drop hints that sex was not satisfying for her that he wouldn’t have understood it was about his penis size. Any guy with a small dick would know immediately in this situation if things are not working, it’s really hard not pick up that vibe off someone. So in real life all of Samantha’s hints would have been received and understood completely from the word go.

Why I went from Empathy to Disdain about our small dick man in Sex in the City!

Here’s what I have realised after a lifetime of sexual experiences both good and bad over my own small dick. Firstly, that guy was a total douche for only considering his own sexual needs during intercourse and not being attentive to Samantha’s needs. There is a whole plethora of ways in which he could have helped her to a most satisfying conclusion to sexual intercourse, but he ignored this focussing solely on penile penetration.

Samantha even tried to introduce a vibrator during the sex one time to stimulate her clitoris while he penetrated her. Instead of seeing this as a sign that his small dick was not enough to satisfy her, he gets into a huff and makes her have sex without the aid. What a selfish man.

Then secondly, during the story we see Samantha’s frustration is heightened by the fact that she actually really likes this guy. The only part of the equation that is letting things down is the sex (which we know is important to Samantha given how much she has it). So there is a lesson here to all guys who are struggling with having a small penis.

A woman can be attracted and love a guy with a small penis no problems because such bonds go beyond the carnal appetites of humans. We love our partners romantically, sexually, intellectually and spiritually as well. But if the sex is not working then it is hard to maintain a good relationship just like if other parts of the relationship are not working as well. This even goes for guys with average and large dicks too.

The small dick character on this Sex in the City episode should have realised that Samantha was unsatisfied and started to be a more attentive lover for her. He should have used all the other ways you can make a woman climax that don’t involve penetration with his penis. Then she may have been happy and they may have lasted longer together because she already liked him.

Although given the character Samantha is a slut who states quite loudly in the clip that she loves big dick I suspect that she would have found greener pastures elsewhere sooner rather than later. Let’s not forget that Samantha’s sexual aggressiveness and inability to stay with any relationship long (even with big dick guys) also highlights her own flaws as a person.

Entertainment that Damages!

I understand the premise that Sex in the City is about female sexuality and that no doubt all females on the dating scene come across guy’s who don’t satisfy them in bed for some reason, one time or another. There is more than one reason to this than just a small penis. Even guys with average or large dicks can be a dud at sex due to things like premature ejaculation, impotency, and they can just be plain bad at sex.

But I remember how this episode effected me at the time and how it really destroyed my confidence in myself. It made me feel like all my worst fears were true. It made go back into my shell even more (especially in regards to women) because the thought of something like that happening to me was too much to bare. For most it was probably just a laugh, but for me it was my life they were talking about.

If a TV show that was about males (eg Entourage) made an episode that belittled women with small breasts or fat chicks, for example, then there would be a serious outcry in the community about it. So why do we sit back and say nothing when it comes to men with small cocks? Why do we allow media to continually perpetuate the ‘size matters’ mindset of many while those of us with tiny dicks have to just put up with being degraded and belittled about it?

Why are males so frightened to discuss penis issues openly?

Small dick guys can’t help the way they are born and I don’t say that just to be a whining guy, it’s just the fact of the matter. Men with smaller penises can still be satisfying lovers and partners, father children, raise a happy family, have successful careers, and be good at sports and hobbies. If they have a partner that cares, coupled with enough self awareness to know when their penis size is an issue and how to overcome it; there is no reason why a small dick guy can’t have a life as good as any larger penis man.

Research is showing that men’s penis’s are actually getting smaller it’s something we will all have to face in the future as a community. However, inaccurately portraying the issue for cheap laughs on TV is fraught with danger to young minds who don’t have the life experience to put things in the right context like I was when I first seen it. I can only hope that this particular TV episode didn’t effect anyone else as negatively as it effected me at the time.

It has taken me 20 years of life experiences to put that particular TV episode of Sex in the City into its proper context. It’s a shame that rather going for a cheap laugh at the small dick guys expense they didn’t actually show Samantha teaching him how to be a better lover, and use what he has got to her satisfaction. Instead of opting for perpetuating negative stereotypes they could have shown the caring nature of females in how she dealt with this man.

However they didn’t, and so the negative stereotypes remain that make sites like this tick. Such is life!

written by small_dik