Our Readers SPH Experiences 357
This reader went into the book…
I was traveling for work, bored, and didn’t know anyone in the city, so I went to the hotel bar for a drink. The bar was kind of crowded, so I took a spot at the end of the bar next to a woman who was there alone. I ordered my drink and started watching the game on the tv above the bar. After ten or fifteen minutes, she started some small talk. You know, the weather, where you’re from, what you’re doing in the city, blah, blah, blah.
After a while, it started getting flirtatious. I was thinking I might be so bored tonight after all. She was cute in a nerdy sort of way. She was petite, with a pretty face and a decent body. After a bit, she said, “Drinks are expensive here. My place isn’t far; we could go have a drink there.”
We got to her place, she fixed each of us a drink, we sat on the couch, and it didn’t take long, and we were making out. She led me into the bedroom, and we were kissing on the bed, my hands exploring her small but firm breasts with rock-hard nipples. After a few minutes came the part that all of us small guys dread, especially on a hook-up. She reached down between my legs and grabbed my penis.
There wasn’t much of a reaction, just “Ooh, he’s hard for me.” Before long, she takes my pants off and sees my penis for the first time. “Ooooo! He’s cute!”
Not the worst reaction I’ve gotten. She grabs it and looks at it in an appraising manner—a very serious look on her face.
“Hold on,” she says. “I need to check something.”
She reaches into the drawer in her bedside table and pulls out a tape measure, a small notebook, and a pen. To be honest, I was a little freaked out.
“Do you measure everyone you are with?” I asked.
“No, just the notable ones,” she said.
“By notable, you mean small?”
“The big ones, too.”
“I’m guessing you’re measuring me because I am notably small? Is this a you must be this tall to ride this ride type thing?” I asked.
“No, I am definitely dying to fuck you. I think you’re hot, and you’re an amazing kisser. Wondering what else you can do with that mouth.”
“You’re measuring because you think I’m the smallest?”
“You might be, but some of the best sex I’ve had is with smaller-than-average men,” she said.
She sits between my legs as I lie on my back. She gives me a couple of strokes.
“Are you fully hard?” she asked.
“Yes.”
She grabs the tape measure and takes her measurement. Four inches, like I knew it would be.
“Are you going measure girth?” I asked.
“No, it’s not skinny, a little bit thick actually,” she said. She opens her notebook and finds the page you are looking for. “You’re not the shortest. Close, but not quite. You have a 1/16 of an inch on the shortest. He was also skinny.”
“How big was the biggest?” I asked
“Sure, you want to hear this?”
“Yes.”
“More than double your size—almost nine inches and very fat. I measured him soft, too. His was bigger soft than yours is hard,” she said.
After that, we got down to business. I made her cum. Not with my dick. I did make it in the notebook as someone notably good with the tongue.
Another reader goes to a nude beach with some friends and his crush…
So I am bisexual now, but back then was more straight-ish. I have a very small one. In the first year of college, there was this girl in our friend group that I really liked. And she seemed quite friendly to me, too. During summer break, we all took a road trip, and we found ourselves at a nude beach, and the other guys were more than keen for all of us to go there.
Long story short, 3 guys (other than me) and 2 girls. We all got naked, the guys (soft cocks) were one way average (probably 4 inches), and two were hung like horses, while I was so embarrassed with my 1.5” soft dick.
Well, the girl I liked made a face of condescending disgust when she saw me. Later that day when we had a fire by the beach he ended up hooking up with the guy with the biggest cock there (must have been like seven inches soft) while I was there looking at my crush making out with this dude while my 1.5” soft dick (which had shriveled even more due to the cold and embarrassment) was out there just to provide laughter to everyone.
While it was embarrassing, afterward I felt it was a necessary evil, as everyone now knew, so now both the girls and the boys started behaving toward me like I was a complete beta male, which, in all honesty, with that thing between my legs, I am.
Meanwhile, this reader is worried his girlfriend may be tempted…
I was friends with my college girlfriend’s roommates. I’m gonna use fake names, but this is a true story. My girlfriend’s roommate, Taylor, had a thing for my best friend, Jack. One night, Jack and Taylor finally hooked up. This was no problem, as I was happy my boy got some pussy, even though I thought Taylor was kind of a slut and a bad influence on my girlfriend.
A couple of days later, I was talking to my girlfriend about their hookup, and she mentioned that Taylor had told all the girls exactly what Jack was working with. And Jack claims he’s packing 8-9 inches (hard), which is believable based on his prominent bulge.
I was surprised Taylor told all the girls, and I was embarrassed because my girlfriend obviously knows that my dick is on the smaller side (4.5 inches hard), and now knows that my buddy, whom we hang out with often, is nearly twice my size. I can only imagine the details Taylor shared with my girlfriend (who only ever slept with me) about what it’s like to have a huge cock inside you.
While this reader observed another guy get some SPH…
A couple of years ago, on college spring break, a group of friends and I decided we wanted to have what we called a ‘Hollywood’ spring break. Like, get a beach house together, enjoy the sun, drink, play games, whatever. One night, we decided we had to play truth or dare, even if it was cheesy. We were all tipsy and thought it would be fun around the little fire pit on the deck.
Late at night, a girl dared another guy and me to put on bikini bottoms. We were a bit nervous, but it was a good laugh, and we were all doing wild dares, so we went for it. I came back wearing a girl’s string bikini, and I didn’t bother covering my cock. I tried once while changing, and it just fell out and couldn’t even cover my tip, so I just let my cock swing free (for reference, I’m 6” soft).
The other guy comes out, and the bikini fits him well with barely a bulge. Everyone was dying laughing at the comparison. Girls were shouting out about how well the bikini bottoms fit him.
“He can just wear it to the beach tomorrow,” one said.
“Good thing he doesn’t have much to cover,” another said.
“Are you sure he’s not really a girl? He has no cock?” some chick shouted.
They really hammered the poor guy, and I felt sorry for him. He was ruthlessly humiliated the whole trip. Surprisingly, he was a good sport about it, but became the butt of all jokes and plenty of other embarrassing situations.
This reader had small dick energy from a young age…
My wife is a size queen, and penis size is something she has always enjoyed seeing. She saw her first big cock when she was a senior in high school. When we first met, she was dating my best friend. A little after meeting me and our friend group, 6 of us dudes, she apparently would look at all of us and would try to guess our sizes based on our looks and personalities. So, out of curiosity, I asked her one day where she placed me back then. She was brutally honest about it, and it both shocked me and turned me on. She told me she thought I was going to have a really small dick.
So I asked her why she thought that. She said that because I’m muscular and have a macho personality, I must be overcompensating. I was not as small as she thought I would be, though, but I was the smallest in our friend group. So, in some way, she was right. She told me that she really wanted me to have a small dick because it would give her an excuse to fuck bigger cocks.
Now every time I think about it, there’s something hot about her thinking that I have small dick energy. Now and then, I get curious and wonder if others think I have a small dick, too. Now we’re both into SPH, and she sometimes goes out of her way to remind me that I gave off small dick energy. And compared to her boyfriends, she is right.
Another reader has some fun with his wife…
I was about to get in the shower last night when I remembered I needed to text someone something very important, so I walked out into the living room, where my wife was watching TV, wearing only a T-shirt, to get my phone.
My dick is either turtle or 1.5 inches max when soft, and at this point, it was almost turtle because I was wearing some tight bikinis. I grabbed my phone, and my wife looked down at my dick and said, “Baby, you are so tiny right now,” and laughed.
“Well, it’s really cold. It is winter, ya know,” I said.
“Sure. Whatever you want to tell yourself, dicklette. You really do look like a pale little acorn,” she said as I turned away. “But at least you have a good ass,” and she whooped and whistled—just a fun interaction.
Meanwhile, this reader doesn’t realize he’s stuck in the beta friendzone…
Recently, I was texting a friend about her dating life. She and I met on a dating app years ago, but have never actually met in person. She has seen pics and videos of my dick, so she knows how small it is. Anyway, we were talking about how hung this guy she hooked up with was. She said he must’ve been 8”, but she didn’t measure it. I asked her about her ideal size, and she gave me her opinion on all of them.
She told me that 9”+ was too big and hurt, but she could make it work. 7-9” was her favorite. She loved these and went on about how ones this side hit the perfect spot and made her cum almost instantly. She told me 5-6.5” was OK, but she didn’t get too excited over them. Under that, no thanks, buckaroo.
She knows I am 3.5” maybe 4” on a good day, but I don’t think she did this on purpose. So I asked her what about under 4”? Her response was short and sweet: ‘Dicks that small don’t go near me.’
I simply replied: ‘Oof 😅’
“Oh shit, I’m sorry!! You’re funny and sweet, so you’d get a pass 😘.’
Then we texted a little more about how generally she doesn’t fuck small dick guys, but she’d give me a chance someday. And, of course, the conversation went back to how amazing the big cock that fucked her the day before was.
While this reader likes his SPH spicy…
So this was a few months ago. I met this girl at a work function, a relative of one of the company owners: a classic Latina, brown hair, big brown eyes, amazing curves, and beautifully tanned skin. We hit it off, had a few drinks together, and exchanged numbers. Turns out she’s from out of town, so by the time I had texted her 2 or 3 days later, she was already back home, a few hundred kilometers away.
Fast forward a few more days, and our texting had gotten a bit spicier. She asked to see ‘more of me’ hint, hint. So I sent a couple of dick pics. I hadn’t mentioned anything about my small dick or that I like humiliation. Immediately, this sweet, caring Latina turned into a mean, degrading size queen.
Awesome!
This goes on for a day or more, back and forth.
One afternoon, she sends me a video of her rubbing her tits and says its my turn, jerk off for me. So I sent a video of my own. She then sends me a video, and it’s her and 3 other women, all either pretty good looking or smoking hot, and let me tell you, they were LAUGHING! Caught me off guard, but I was pleasantly surprised, so I sent them a video of me cumming while they laughed their asses off.
This reader’s fiance downgraded from 10 inches to 4.5…
So my fiancé and I have been doing some SPH here and there over the last few years. It comes up every so often when having sex because she knows it turns me on. Last night, while she was giving me a handjob, she brought out these extra-large condoms (Naked: king size) that she had bought. We both started laughing, knowing that they obviously wouldn’t fit. I’m below average when hard (Bronze Member), but still like the humiliation aspect of SPH.
She put one on me, and it was way too big. Too thick and too long for my dick. And then she said, “I borrowed these from my ex. He used to fit these barely.”
Now she had openly told me how big her ex is after I asked her when we first started doing some SPH. Her ex was 10inches. It turns me on when she compares me to him (even though she reassured me that sex with me is way better). She said, “Your dick is like if my ex had a baby. How does it make you feel? Having a dick half the size of his?”
I loved the humiliation of this.
Another reader’s boss is sexually harassing him…
My best friend/boss has this tendency of flashing me and showing me his big cock. At least I think he’s doing it. It mostly happens when we go to the gym or when we’re on work trips and stay together. He doesn’t do it in a super obvious way, but he will spend a fair bit of time nude around me and sometimes grab his big cock, which makes me look at it. There have even been times when I think he picks up on me being uncomfortable with it and trying to get out of it, like going to be or leaving the room, and he makes a point of stopping me physically and keeping talking to me.
I always feel intimidated because his nuts are way bigger than mine, and his cock is thicker, and he’s obviously longer, so I just take it and stare as long as I can. I think he knows our size difference because once he said, “When you have a big cock like me, I mean you wouldn’t know this, but women go crazy over it.”
But I wasn’t sure whether the “you wouldn’t know this” was about being craved by women or having a huge cock.
I remember a couple of years ago, he made me talk to him while he was showering in the hotel room, and he spent time washing his cock, but it was so big it kept flopping around. A couple of weeks ago, he got really close to me when we were both naked, and his cock and my little dick almost touched, and between how close they were and the size difference, I froze and almost cried. A couple of times, I feel like I’ve seen him looking at my little dick, then looking at his cock, them like smiling and drawing more attention to it. I want to let him know I know he’s way bigger than I am, but I don’t know if it will help.
Meanwhile, this reader’s wife enjoys some SPH fun…
So, I’m into small penis humiliation, but it’s something I enjoy, mainly in my head, and have never told my wife. Back when we started dating, 39 years ago, we were at a bar one night, and I held my hand up to her hand, and her fingers were definitely longer. Embarrassing, yes, as back then, I wasn’t into SPH. We hadn’t slept together, and you know what they say about guys with short fingers. Definitely not man hands, as her hands and fingers are very slender but long.
Even though we’ve never talked about my SPH kink, I make a lot of disparaging comments about my dick. Most are pretty funny, and she will laugh. Occasionally, particularly some 20 years ago, when I got into the kink, I overdid it to the point of annoying her. At that time, I wanted to have the conversation, but it still hasn’t happened.
Two nights ago, she asked to rub my dick while we were watching TV. While she was doing this, I just noticed how small my dick looked in her hand. For context, it’s 4×4. Seeing that made me much harder, more hard than a mid-60s dick usually gets with a stroke on a weeknight.
I said nothing that time, as mentioned before, it was just some rubbing on a Thursday night. Since it is part of my routine to disparage my little dick around her, I’m going to comment on it next time. It’s too bad she’s out of town this weekend, or that would be happening tonight.
*Webmasters Note: Extensive medical research over many years has demonstrated that there is no reliable correlation between penile size and other physical characteristics such as hand size, finger length, foot size, toe length, height, or overall body build.
While this reader has his first rodeo…
I had just turned 21 and returned home to Cheyenne, Wyoming, from college to visit my Mom and go to the rodeo. I met up with some buddies from high school, and we were checking out the sights. We bumped into a group of Cowgirls, and they joined us at the drinks tent for a round of beers. I hit it off with a fellow ginger named Jaycee, a 22-year-old barrel racer. Jaycee was petite with good boobs and an ass made for wranglers. Jaycee was loud and boisterous. I enjoyed getting to know her.
After the rodeo, I asked if she wanted to take a drive in my old Ford truck. We went out to a dirt road and parked to watch the stars. We started kissing and making out. It started to get chilly, so she asked if I wanted to go back to her hotel room. My buddy was already there with her Friend on the other bed. My buddy had already seen my dick, and my friends had always joked about my 4.5” cock. I also had an embarrassing prejac incident I was still taking a razzing for.
Jaycee and I got back to making out again. The moans from the next bed were a huge turn-on. I had her undressed and warmed up with my fingers when she told me to show her my stuff. I got my shirt off, and she complimented my abs and pecs. I got down to my briefs and pulled them down, releasing my little guy. Jaycee busted a gut at the sight. It caused my buddy and his girl to stop and look. My buddy patted me on the back and said, “It’s a good thing chode is good with his hands and mouth because that tiny dick won’t even make it past the entrance.”
Jaycee said, “I’m not into dating other chicks.”
I started to get turned on by the humiliation and even joined in with a microscope joke. Eventually, it settled down, and I figured I would cut my losses and start to get dressed because I had blown my shot with my little derringer.
Jaycee told me to get back into bed and said we could scissor. I ended up bringing her to orgasm twice with my mouth and hand before she told me to try and get it in. I stuck it in her warm pussy and started moving. I was so in my head after all the teasing, I only made it a few minutes before I pulled my little tic tac out and busted on her chest. I licked her clean, then went back to finish her off with my mouth. I was ready for round two by then and lasted long enough to get her off. I kissed her and asked how her first time with a chick went.
She laughed and said, “It did the job in a pinch.”
The next morning, we all met up for breakfast. Jaycee retold our night, and the humiliation spread to the rest of the group. This experience really got me into the kink of having Women humiliate my pathetic penis.
This reader is on the road to becoming a cuckold…
It took a while for her to get comfortable with actually humiliating me about my size beyond just kind of calling it small half-heartedly and then apologizing after. Still, lately she’s really warmed up to it. Part of it was that I started using the dildo on her a lot more, mostly because I have trouble staying hard with condoms, and BC isn’t an option currently, and I also slip out a lot when we have sex. She liked the 8 inches way more than my barely 4.5, and straight up told me it’s a better way to get her off.
Nowadays, practically every time we’re intimate, she mentions my size and how it’s so small and can’t fuck her. Some of my favorite comments have been: “You’re not even five inches,” and “You’re really lucky you’re good with your mouth, given how lacking you are elsewhere.”
Today I ordered a nub cage, and her first question was, “Is it small enough?” Followed by, “I can’t believe we have to keep going smaller and smaller.”
She’s made it clear my tiny dick is not going to fuck her much going forward, and most of my orgasms are going to be from a vibrator, and I couldn’t be happier.
Another reader claims it’s a sleeping giant…
I have known my friend Azad for over 10 years, and we are in our 30s. He called me and asked, “Marc, can you help me with some renovation stuff on Saturday?”
I say, “Yeah, no worries.”
After I arrive and we go to our work, his beautiful, tall blonde Wife Sara, with double DD serve us in her hot outfit something to drink. My friend Azad says, “We’re going to have a cool dinner after work.”
So we worked our asses off, and after 6 hours, we were covered in dust and crap. My friend says, “Let’s have a quick shower, and then we’ll go to dinner.” I look at him a bit curiously, and he says, “No worries, we have a garden shower. It’s big behind the house. Come.”
In my head, I have many worries. I often see his big bulge in some pants, and he is definitely the dominant guy. Ok, I’ll go with him because I won’t be the shy guy. We go around the back of his house, into the garden, and he has a big shower with a sauna. Azad dropped his pants down and I was in shock. I saw his massive soft 6-inch cock with balls big like tennis balls. I breath in calmly and pull down my pants and look at my 1-inch soft and very thin dick.
He sees me and says, “Oh, it’s probably cold,” with a smirk on his face.
I can only look at his massive soft cock. And then we finished, and he was very loud. “Sara, we need some towels.”
I stand there and think fuck, no towel here, then Sara comes with a towel, and we stand there completely exposed for her. Sara had a big smile on her face and said, “Oh my gosh, two naked guys, what a pleasure, and you’re both built very differently.” She laughed.
I said, “Hey, the water was cold, and it’s a sleeping giant.”
Sara and Azad start laughing a lot. Sara quipped, “Yeah, Marc is a sleepy shrimpy,” then turned, and we changed the topic.
Meanwhile, this reader goes out swinging…
Last weekend, I went to my first-ever swinger resort with my ‘Friend-with-benefits’ (FWB). It was scary. She was more scared for me than I was. We got there, people were at the pool area, tipsy or drunk, topless or nude. We go to our room to get changed. I was trying to get freaky, but she was like, “That will not help you out there.”
After sex, my penis gets even smaller. So we get our bathing suits and go to the pool. We felt uncomfortable, but we got drinks and started talking to people. They have a club after and a lover’s room. So in the lover’s room, everyone has to be nude. My heart dropped. Everyone says it’s a dark, candlelit theme. We keep drinking, and her top comes off. We went back to the room, ordered food, and had sex. She’s like, “Are you ready for the lover’s room now?”
We go to the lover’s room in a robe, fully nude. When we got there, they made us put it in a locker. Now I am a tall man with a way below average penis. We went to the bar, met some people, and hung out. It was a 2 MF couple and a FF couple. We were drinking and talking, and I kept seeing their eyes looking down at me. I got smirks and giggles from all of them. One of the ladies came closer to us and said, “I need to touch it.”
My FWB told her go for it. She grabs my balls and dick with one hand and starts jerking it with 2 fingers. And looks at me and laughs, but says, “It’s going to be my bitch tonight.”
Later, we went to the hot tub outside, and it got wild there. Everyone saw it nice and clear, but I was drunk, and so I didn’t care. The man with a 7-9” cock grabbed my FWB and told her your pussy is getting opened tonight. Everyone was mixed up, and that lady was blowing me. My FWB was in doggy with that guy yelling like I never heard her. It was a great experience, but the SPH was to the max.
While this reader turned his shame into a sexual fetish…
In 2011, I dated a girl I met when we were interns. I was always teasing her, making comments about her body, pushing her buttons in a way I didn’t understand back then. Now I know it was attraction mixed with insecurity coming out wrong. We eventually hooked up, and the first time I was drunk and painfully aware of how small I looked when soft. I remember her noticing and giving this little look that made me feel exposed. Later, when we tried to have sex, it didn’t really work. She said she couldn’t feel much. Neither could I.
We still dated for almost a year, but my size became a running joke. She would comment on it, call it small, and look at it as if she were measuring it. In the end, she cheated on me with her ex, who she had already told me was much bigger (BBC). When we broke up, she told people that my dick was small. I acted like I didn’t care, but it cut deep.
That kind of humiliation doesn’t just disappear. It sticks in your nervous system. Your brain remembers the spike of emotion, the shame, the intensity, and later it tries to recreate it. That’s what happened to me. The trauma slowly turned into a fetish.
Now I crave being seen and judged for my size. I post nudes. I talk about it. I put myself down on purpose. Part of me gets turned on by the same feeling that once hurt me. The rush isn’t even really pleasure. It’s just something familiar that my brain keeps chasing. I wish most women who know me knew/had seen my size. I also sometimes feel an urge to disclose it, you know, casually, just to catch them off guard and see their body language/reaction. I flashed my ex-boss (50yo) on WhatsApp. She used to grope me low-key when we had to go to the office. That day, I was high and just didn’t seem to care. I wish I could see her face in person; just the thought of it excites me.
For years, I avoided dating because I was afraid of being rejected again, even though I get attention and know I’m decently attractive. lately i’ve been trying to take some control back. I still feel the urge to expose myself, to see reactions, to feel that jolt. But now i’m at least aware of where it comes from, and that gives me a little bit of space to choose what I do with it.
Honestly, I kind of like it a lot. Shame, arousal, fear, being seen, being wanted, and being exposed all at once.
This female reader’s new guy has a really small dick…
My boyfriend Fin and I had been going out for around 2 weeks and were in bed about to do it for the first time when he said he hadn’t got any condoms. So I tell him I think my ex left some of his. I opened my bedside table, dug out the box, and gave him one of them. He took it off his pants, and I saw how small his dick really was for the first time. He ripped the condom open and went to put it on, then just went completely pale and looked at me.
My ex had quite a large cock and had to buy large-sized condoms (I didn’t know they were), so on Fins’ little dick it just looked all scrunched up and really loose. I couldn’t stop myself from letting out a little giggle, so I put my hand over my mouth and said he could try just holding it on. But that didn’t work cause with his fingers on the base, he didn’t have enough dick left actually to get it in.
Eventually, he said he’d just go down on me that night, then he’d get some better-fitting ones the next day. After he’d gone down on me and I’d made him finish with my hand, he asked if my ex was big. So I thought there was no point in lying and told him he was nine inches hard. Then he asked if I liked that. So I didn’t know what to say and just told him, “I guess I did, but don’t worry about it,” and we went to sleep.
Another female reader has a threesome with a member of the small dick club…
Most couples having fun with SPH seem to be oriented around the guy in the relationship being the smaller one and the extra man being the bigger one. We are a bit different. In our case, our extra is the much smaller one, while my hubby’s is the bigger one. They are friends from way back, and after a night at the local pub, he told my hubby about his thing for cages and his smaller size. My hubby had heard rumors about this from our extras’ ex-girlfriend before, along with him being very into SPH, but had never asked him about it until now. It turns out it is his biggest fetish.
We continue drinking together at our place, and the subject comes up, but with me in the room. I’m a bit shocked, but I can’t help asking questions about the topic since I haven’t heard of anything like this before. He tells us that he is pretty much always locked up in his cage and is even wearing it right now. I tell him a bit about us – my hubby is the biggest by far that I have been with, and he, being a hung guy, has literally made me his personal fuck doll, and that we have a ‘free use’ arrangement.
Drinks continue, and the conversation keeps going a bit, and eventually, I can’t help myself when our extra goes to the bathroom. I start making out with my hubby while getting him hard by rubbing my hand on his cock on the outside of his pants. Our extra enters the room again, and my hubby’s cock is clearly visible through his pants. I see him staring straight at my hubby’s pants.
I ask him if I can see the cage. While he starts taking off his pants, I start taking off my hubby’s pants. Seeing his caged cock next to my hubby makes my hubby look even bigger. I can’t stop myself from laughing when I see them next to each other. My hubby says the cage makes it unfair and tells his friend to unlock it. He does as he is told. It doesn’t take long for him to get hard watching me blow my hubby next to him. I can’t help but laugh again at the size difference. I put my other hand around him, and it completely covers his tiny dick, and I tell him that life is so unfair sometimes while smiling.
Meanwhile, this reader’s swim trunks revealed his true worth…
When I was younger, I went to the pool with 2 of my friends, Grace and Farah. Both of them were very nice, outgoing, and bold. Both of them had big boobs, too. Farah had E cups, which looked insane compared to her skinny body. Grace had DD cups, which were still impressive even compared to Farah’s. Even though I knew we were just friends, it was exciting to hang out with 2 busty girls in bikinis. After swimming for a bit, we went to the showers to clean off.
After a couple of minutes, Grace randomly asked me, “Hey, are you circumcised?”
I told her I was, and asked her why she was asking me that. She said she could see my dick pretty well through my swim trunks, which were thin fabric. I checked, and sure enough, my little dick was VERY visible. Since we were now talking about my penis, Farah asked me if I’m a grower or a shower. I told her I’m a grower.
Both girls laughed and said something along the lines of, “Good, we would feel really bad for you if that’s as big as it gets.”
I think they’d feel bad for me if they saw how small it is, even when it’s hard.
While this reader has a long-distance relationship…
For a little backstory, my girlfriend (Nadia) has been in a relationship for over a year. She has an 8-year-old from a previous relationship. At the beginning of our relationship, I expressed to her that I’m totally comfortable with her having sex now and then with other men, being that I can’t satisfy those physical needs while being states away.
Well, here we are a year later, and things have been going pretty well. We had a short period (2 weeks) where we were kind of at odds and not speaking much. Two months later, she lets me know she has something to tell me, hoping it won’t ruin our love bubble. I tell her that I’m a very understanding person, so go ahead. This leads to her confessing that while we were at odds for those 2 weeks, she got impulsive and slept with her child’s father, and now she’s pregnant.
I didn’t freak out because I wanted her always to feel comfortable confessing to me, and the revelation actually made me realize how much I loved her and never wanted to lose her (which I’ve expressed to her a lot lately). So during a casual conversation recently, I jokingly stated that she should’ve just swallowed his cum or taken it up the ass. That’s when she informed me that she’d never let him perform anal sex with her because she felt as if anal sex wasn’t for bigger than average men.
I was so taken aback that I unconsciously asked her whether he was really bigger than average (which she hesitantly confirmed). Now I’ve been thinking about her sleeping with and being pregnant by a much bigger guy than me (I’m 4.5″ hard yet thin). I then asked her if I was a good size for anal, but she never answered.
I asked her again later, and she told me this: “I feel as though anal is for smaller sizes. I can’t tell if you’re an anal size, because I’ve only seen one video of it.”
I got it up and sent another video, but I haven’t received a comment yet. Tonight, while talking on the phone, I slipped in the question of whether I could have her anally, and she said yes, without realizing she was admitting that in her mind, I have a small dick.
This reader was pantsed by a rival for a girl’s affections…
Years ago, when I was still living in my hometown, I knew this girl whom I had been crushing on for years. I never had the nerve to ask her out in high school. But one summer, I was home from university for a while, and I ran into her. I figured it was my chance, asked her out on a date, and, to my surprise, she said yes. We went on a few dates over the next couple of weeks, and after the 4th or 5th date, I asked if she wanted to make it official. Again, to my surprise, she agreed.
I couldn’t believe I had made my dream girl my girlfriend. Everything seemed great except for two problems. The first was that I had this group of guy friends, and one of the guys that I wasn’t super close with really liked the same girl, and I guess there was this unspoken agreement that none of the guys in our group should date her. I knew he would be pissed when he found out. The second was, even though she and I had been hanging out a lot, we hadn’t had sex yet, and she didn’t know about my little dick. My penis is very small. But I figured I could control the first time and make it work by turning out the lights and not letting her get a good look at it right away.
Right after we made things official, we decided to go out together at this big festival in the town square of the town. Most people in town went, and we figured it would be fun to hang out and check it out. By then, my buds knew we were together, and predictably, the guy who liked her was there, looking furious when we showed up together.
She and I hung out there for a while, and at one point, we were facing each other, making out a bit, then talking and flirting. Suddenly, I felt a weird chill and gust of air near my crotch, and I also saw her look down, and the expression on her face changed to a mix of humor, shock, and disgust. She covered her mouth and looked away. I was confused until I looked down and saw that my basketball shorts and boxers had been yanked down to the ground.
It happened so smoothly, I didn’t feel it. I then saw the guy who liked her had done it, and he was laughing hysterically. A bunch of people nearby saw it too, and they were all laughing. I yanked my shorts back up and then shoved the guy so hard that he went to the ground. He got up to fight back, and then two of our friends had to separate us. The people running the event made us leave after that.
This was probably the worst possible way for my girlfriend to find out about my little dick. Later that day, I tried texting and calling, but she didn’t respond. I got a hold of her the next day, and we went out for a bit, but she seemed weird. The next week, she dumped me, not naming the pantsing thing as the reason, but I’m sure that was why.
Another reader bumbled with his hookup…
I once hooked up with an Asian-Indian girl I met on Bumble. Did some video calls initially, and she came over to my place for the weekend. We got into it, and just when she saw my thin little dick, she stared at it and asked if this will get bigger. Instantly killed the momentum, but she was no longer horny and got curious. She mentioned that she hooked up recently with a guy who was really hung. She started flicking it left and right. It killed me back then.
I dated her for a few months. She often used to laugh in the middle of sex when I tried to penetrate her hard. It did nothing for her. She never had an orgasm with me fucking her. She had big hands, making my thing almost disappear when she stroked me. I look back and feel that I should have tried some SPH with her actively. She occasionally used two fingers on me to get me off when she was bored.
Meanwhile, this Gay reader has found his ideal hookup…
This is an ongoing situation with a random guy I hook up with.
I live in a major city and often get horny at work. One day, a few weeks ago, I was looking to get off during my lunch break, and there was a guy not too far from me on Grindr. We ended up meeting, and I topped him. It was fun, nothing mind-blowing, but a good time.
About a week later, the same guy messaged me saying, ‘You want to put your little dick in me?’
I was surprised we hadn’t discussed SPH yet, so this came as a surprise. I was instantly hard. We started messaging back and forth, engaging in more SPH with him calling my dick tiny and saying he usually only bottoms for big cocks, and I’m the only little dick he bottoms for.
I head to his place with explicit instructions to walk in and beg him to let me fuck him with my tiny dick, unload, and leave. Well, I did just that, and it was amazing. He called my dick tiny the entire time I fucked him, and I came harder than I ever have. We’ve started messaging again, and I can’t wait to go back for more.

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