By sissysherry2 “I know your secret.” These were the words that I had both dreaded and longed to hear from my babysitter Teri. Let me start at the beginning. I am single and have a couple of kids at home who aren’t quite old enough to be on their own when I have business obligations. I share custody with my ex, which left me to be with another man, who happened to be black. I get the kids during the